Dataman
02-01-2006, 08:10 AM
Just a comment about common courtesy.
Recently had a touring lady posted about coming to Memphis and as time progress we exchanged emails and set up a time. (This was not a Tennessee lady but from a distant state). It was also confirmed by email a day or two before the appointment.
Since she was coming to my area I didn't worry too much but the day before I again dropped her an email just verifying her trip Memphis. Well, nothing by email or nothing on the message boards about changes in her plans. I even called her number a couple of times on the day of the appointment with no answer.
I am posting this thread since I know that newbies look at this board and others and I also know that courtesy is applicable to both ladies and guys. I was out no costs in this situation but I do consider blocking time of my time on my schedule important. When this sort to thing happens to ladies it is a hit to finances.
It seems to me it doesn't take long to make a call (she had my cell phone number) or email me. I know it happens to other guys and I know that it happens all the time to ladies with the worst thing being no shows after the lady arrives in town.
Just had to comment so anyone looking at this board might be reminded that common courtesy should be kept in mind in this activity on both sides.
Thanks for listening
Dataman
Recently had a touring lady posted about coming to Memphis and as time progress we exchanged emails and set up a time. (This was not a Tennessee lady but from a distant state). It was also confirmed by email a day or two before the appointment.
Since she was coming to my area I didn't worry too much but the day before I again dropped her an email just verifying her trip Memphis. Well, nothing by email or nothing on the message boards about changes in her plans. I even called her number a couple of times on the day of the appointment with no answer.
I am posting this thread since I know that newbies look at this board and others and I also know that courtesy is applicable to both ladies and guys. I was out no costs in this situation but I do consider blocking time of my time on my schedule important. When this sort to thing happens to ladies it is a hit to finances.
It seems to me it doesn't take long to make a call (she had my cell phone number) or email me. I know it happens to other guys and I know that it happens all the time to ladies with the worst thing being no shows after the lady arrives in town.
Just had to comment so anyone looking at this board might be reminded that common courtesy should be kept in mind in this activity on both sides.
Thanks for listening
Dataman